on a scale of 1 to 10

how important is:

Compatibility
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Being there for each other - no matter what... and i mean, no matter how tired, sleep-deprived, depressed, stuck-in-traffic or cranky you are
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Self-sacrifice for the other's happiness
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Romance
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Support
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Financial stability
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Open and honest communication
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Constant communication
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Optimism
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Intelligence
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Against-all-odds kind of love
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Being able to really understand... or at least, really tries to
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Maturity
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Patience
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Ambition
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Cuddling (or lambingan, for a better scope)
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Kindness of heart
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Being religious
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Cooperation
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Trust?